by jessekahn | Apr 20, 2017 | Uncategorized
A lot of the people I work with feel that they didn’t learn how to soothe their feelings, express their feelings and have a constructive relationship to their feelings. I find this particularly true when it comes to anger. A theme I’ve also seen is that...
by jessekahn | Mar 15, 2017 | Uncategorized
Relationships, intimacy and vulnerability can be scary and many folks I’ve worked with struggle with trauma, negative self narratives, beliefs of being undeserving, unloveable and other narratives that keep us feeling distant or fearful of relationships. This...
by jessekahn | Jan 27, 2017 | Uncategorized
Language and labels can be incredibly meaningful. In a lot of my work I find people often resisting labels, defending labels, finding connection in labels and finding meaning. While sometimes harmful and limiting, labels can also be connecting and liberating. They can...
by jessekahn | Jan 21, 2017 | Uncategorized
Many of the individuals and couples I work with often don’t feel comfortable or “experienced enough” in talking about what they like, don’t like, and what they can even consider when it comes to sex and desire. Here is a great resources from...
by jessekahn | Nov 21, 2016 | Uncategorized
Today is Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR). TDOR is to remember the lives of trans people, majority transwomen and transwomen of color, who have lost their lives due to the violence that is transphobia. “Transgender people have survived throughout the...
by jessekahn | Sep 14, 2016 | Uncategorized
In this TED talk, Dr. Ross explains how in fact time may not heal all wounds, but that childhood trauma, especially chronic exposure, has lasting impacts on our health, our brains and therefore our choices, relationships and lives. In my work with individuals that...