Many of the individuals and couples I work with often don’t feel comfortable or “experienced enough” in talking about what they like, don’t like, and what they can even consider when it comes to sex and desire. Here is a great resources from Autostraddle that can 1) help you either individually take ownership and agency over your sexual by knowing what you want or don’t want and/or 2) help facilitate a conversation between 2+ people about your sex and desire. It’s called the Yes/No/Maybe List!